final peak this June sun announcing the holiday, life, free from the usual commitments and obligations. There is always a time for everything, even to themselves: just wait and arrives after a long winter and a spring equally capricious. It 's normal, everything is governed by rules. Yes, received notification of the hearing of divorce in August of the last link with, the legal system, will be officially broken. Then, as he writes: "my life will be free from a contract signed for love and wound up duty. But no work so these things? For all human beings, whether straight or gay ... a leave, we leave and then you pick up the pieces of a life, you throw away a lot of dreams that will not happen and never seeks to build others. ". E 'its a bitter observation, but true and real. Yes, and Di. Were married by the Swiss law that consentele unions between same sex, unquestionably a social achievement for all purposes, but that does not magically solve the problems of everyday living together, the need to build day-to-day relationship of love that touches always, of course, the players in person.
For straight or gay, the end of a love beyond of the legal issues, it is always a pain : "Well, I would make him feel my heart beating, his hands tremble and the intrinsic sense of failure experienced. I guess that the" normal families "prove the same things right? ( ...) It 'a very slow process, as I have to try. A process that peak normal and others where it hurts to wake up. " The end of a love, whatever happens, inevitably leaves a vacuum in which we can recognize its fallimento.Qualsiasi it was the cause.
Love, legally recognized or not, remains a leap of faith, without any pretext of security or rescue. It demands total surrender can not be immediate nor spontaneous, as only a little 'time to get used to recognize in the chaos of his reassuring reminder that life is never deafening and prevaricating. E' is the moment jump, but the outcome is never certain.
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